Can we get an Official clarification on housing Demolish timer (45 or 90?)

[Sicno]

Because it's comparable to denying you of a housing (that I took it first) just as much as me holding onto it and deny you of said housing. Different circumstances, same effect. I wanted my house at any cost, so I camped it and took it for myself ,knowing very well that the other person won't be able to purchase it after I have.

...You literally have no idea what you're talking about.