Can we get an Official clarification on housing Demolish timer (45 or 90?)

[Malevicton]

There's ways to share disagreement without being rude though

They were nice the first time. "Stroke even the face of a Buddha three times, and his anger will be roused." They coulda been nicer, but I don't think it's fair to turn that around on them.

We're also wandering in the gray area between rude and blunt. The person really didn't know what they were talking about, so why is it rude to say that they don't know what they're talking about?