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    Quote Originally Posted by Tuathaa View Post
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    It is a statement with a strong demanding tone. Many people have agreed on that already. Please refer to GenJoe's post.

    Also, please quote where I said I had the intention to or were unwilling to not skip everything. If I had, why would I have offered him compromise in the first place? I pulled the first two sets of mobs without saying anything, yes, but I picked up the mobs he pulled and offered him a compromise during the fight with those mobs. I saw his demand, refused to follow his order until I figured out how he was going to treat me, and "righted my wrong" so to speak when I helped him out with the extra mobs he pulled.

    Was my initial quietness rebellious? Yes, partly in reality. Fully in his eyes possibly. But against a demand, is it unreasonable? No. Is helping him with the mobs he pulled rebellious? No, it's a very reasonable thing to do. Is offering him compromise rebellious? Nope.

    I also can't prove that we asked, rather than demanded, that he AoE. Assuming that I was unreasonable about it when I've said many times in this thread that I don't mind doing clears seems to be the worst assumption you could make though. Add to that that we helped him kill the mobs he pulled, and it should give you even more insight into my intent. That intent being that we were willing to compromise. Had I let him tank the mobs? That would have been a different story, sure. But I picked them up for him.

    My compromise was basically "Please AoE so that this clear we are about to do for you doesn't take an agonizingly long time for us." Please do not put words into my mouth, Tuathaa. You seem to have a real bias against me here. Why? I don't know, but you are spinning things I've said into the wrong meanings.

    We were there to get the dungeon done ASAP. When the healer is wanting a clear and a dps is willing to pull if you don't, it's pretty obvious that going along with the clear will make the dungeon go faster than standing around arguing about it, trying to not do a clear and being left to die, and letting dps pull and cause problems. I am not an idiot.

    You are making a lot irrational assumptions that have no basis about me here.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tuathaa View Post
    You shouldn't but you shouldn't claim innocence in the issue either. It takes 2 to tango he rubbed you wrong and then you proceeded to rub him wrong and the whole thing went south.

    And I have read every post you made in this thread pre and post edits.
    It doesn't take two people to have an uncompromising, demanding, entitled person in the group, however.

    With the exception of maybe immediately responding to him (I've already addressed why I didn't), I tried what I could to salvage this run.

    Edit: Me saying "Why should I have to shoulder most of the blame" was referring to otarolgam saying I should by the way, not referring to your post. Just clarifying!
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    Last edited by Adire; 05-06-2015 at 12:02 PM.