The Key to pulling is the team work phrase from the DPS Creed, "No faster than the tank, no slower than the healer".

It's all team work. I don't care for fast pulls any where with the exception of Bryflox HM. But if I pull the whole first floor and we wipe to trash mobs I'll pull half that the next attempt. If I'm in Satasha HM or Snow Cloak and the other members say "Fast pulls plz" all I ask is "Sure you can handle it?" and when they say yes I simply go "Ok" and pull by the floor instead of by the pack.

Remember this is an MMO not a CoD Deathmatch. You're on a team that co-operates to succeed. And unlike CoD if one part of the team breaks down you all fail. The tank sucks? Every one dies. The Healers Suck? Every one dies. The DPS Suck? The tanks and healers get overwhelmed and, you guessed it, every one DIES.

Honestly, if every one started acting like a TEAM instead of 4-24 solo acts this game would be a lot more enjoyable for every one.