The cycle of disbanding that keep casuals from doing content

[NyarukoW]

... YOU need to come help me" (you being raiders/endgamers that know these fights) on the principle of empathy or some such.

I don't understand why the insistence on twisting the word or meaning of what the OP has written or what the thread is about. All that is being asked if lend a hand if you can. What is so wrong about that?

Instead of empathy, we see all sorts of disses directed at the OP and newer players. That is addition to the ever preset clears and this gives the impression that newer players and newbie are being treated with contempt and disdain all the while taking there gil like the McDonald's happy meal bandit.

Sure being proactive help, but it only goes so far because none of this stuff is easy. The OP has been proactive, has been trying, did a lot of waiting, and had a lot of frustration. The OP nor players like the OP is asking to be spoonfed. We are asking that people do NOT go out of their way to deliberately make things harder. And little empathy on the forums goes a long way, instead of all the dismissive missives and name calling.

Additionally being proactive goes beyond just clearing content. We should be proactive about building the community that is more inclusive and more accepting of all players. This helps the game and help everyone, because this is enlightened self interest. The more people that clear the gated contented the more people that can be available to tackle the next/new gated content.