Look, those who are struggling have asked what to do. Those who have successfully completed this content have explained what they did to become successful and recommended those struggling to do the same. (take the initiative, put in the effort, make a group yourself, don't passively wait for it to happen etc). The response from the unsuccessful has been largely "that's not good enough. YOU need to come help me" (you being raiders/endgamers that know these fights) on the principle of empathy or some such.

you don't like the answer, then go find your own solution. Trouble is finding your own way takes initiative and effort. The exact prescription that is apparently so hard to swallow. Don't act as though successful raiders don't understand. No one is born a successful endgame player. We all started fresh newbies sometime somewhere without any connections or skill. It may be this game 4 months ago or it may be EQ 20 years ago. We all did exactly what we are advocating at some point. That is how we got to where we are.

Those who have done it have told you how they did it so you can help yourself do the same. If that isn't good enough for you then there's nothing else to discuss. Follow the well trodden path or go blaze your own.