This is, I feel, exactly why people are getting bored with the game during the week. I like the people in my static and my friends in-game and I genuinely like the game, there just isn't enough challenging dungeons with gear that I want. I played EQ for a long time, and while EQ had ridiculous RNG drops (FAR beyond what is in this game), and long grindy quests, it also had challenging small group content (Raids were 24-72 people, groups were a max of 6 people).
As a raider in a larger guild that did current content in EQ, I could do small group content and get upgrades by doing the hard stuff. Granted there were more gear slots to fill, but you also have lots of jobs to gear out in FFXIV.
THIS was my idea for something like this (which I think is cool, obviously).