A lot of your people are too much invested in the lives of others instead of yourselves.

Why should any of your care how someone else plays, or if they pay for a fight to get their relic? Why should it bother you? If they want to buy a weapon to skip the trouble of doing the fight themselves, they should damn well be able to and any of your arguing against it should mind your own respective businesses on the matter.

And no, I'm not going to buy my weapon when I get to the fight, I'm going to go about it with my FC. Not everyone buys gil in this game. Not everyone is a bad player. Not everyone has the time or patience at a losing fight, or hoping for the lucky duty. It's not hard to farm gil in this game, and no one should be faulted for buying in unless it's blatant RMT.

If they want to buy relic, +1 it and stand around all day, that's their own $$$ that they spend to play not yours. So don't worry about them; stay on your own grind and help yourself and your friends.