"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[TBerry]

Wouldn’t you know that I’d actually be fine with tanks being the designated pullers if anyone pulling didn’t lead to measurable upsides and zero downsides. It’s like they made dungeons not care about the holy trinity then wonder why people don’t treat dungeons like a game with an actual holy trinity treats dungeons. Shocker isn’t it, things lead to unintended side effects when your only concern is pretending the trinity is meaningless. Why would you want to hold onto meaningless “etiquette” born of the way a game with an actual holy trinity interacts with dungeons when this game refuses to even pretend like it has a holy trinity

But yeah I guess if 14 before ShB is another genre then I should be playing another genre because I’ve never wanted anything else than this game to actually pretend the trinity is a real thing again

That's the thing, people DO treat it like the trinity. Even if it's not mechanically supported.
Hence dungeon etiquette. It's called immersion.