"You pull, you tank" is a bad mentality

[Supersnow845]

Tank setting the pace is a agreement among the team. Thank you for proving my point.

See this is just such a perfect representation of the pointless circular logic that defines YPYT

“Let’s say the tank sets the pace and everyone agrees on it, then it’s wrong for the others to not obey the pace. Why does the tank set the pace? Because the tank sets the pace”

Like sure if everyone is fine with the tank setting the pace then go ahead, but if people disagree on the pace then the tank isn’t right by default and allowing people to die because you disagree with another’s desired pace is just the most childish way to solve it while also pretending to be “for the party”

And as for your edit who determines said etiquette, there isn’t rules for who pulls. You are basically saying “let’s assume the rules exist (they don’t), why are you breaking them?”