There’s also just the fact that if you put arbitrary gender resurrections on gear who gets to be the arbiter of what is and isn’t acceptable

Like my character has a feather hairpin. Is that too “feminine” for a male character to wear?

You can’t even answer the above question with “square is the arbiter” because some people here want square to be even more conservative so it’s obvious square has made decisions too liberal for you (like the person who doesn’t like that makes have speedo options calling them bikinis when speedos are a perfectly normal male swimwear type)

And what about the line between two people arguing conservatism, who gets to pick when one of you is fine and the other isn’t with a piece