Quote Originally Posted by QiyoJoyo View Post
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You are provocative -> Yes. Purposely. But I wouldn't necessarily say its for provocation sake, but rather leading the conversation in the direction of a final result instead of useless bickering. That people won't take the same energy they have against players making or doing nsfw lalafell content in private to the source of what causes it/justifies it. People want the moral points of saying they don't like it, without doing anything meaningful afterward. The same way they're quiet about nsfw lalafell content in the game and don't want to respond when I bring it up, they could be about players and this thread wouldn't even be made.

You are aggressive -> Yes. I don't consider this a bad thing when dealing with certain groups of people. Most times I'm more inquisitive to figure out the root cause of the issue, but its emotion and people don't want to negotiate/be understanding, yes, I will turn aggressive and match that energy people toss toward me.

You are arrogant -> Yes. Because I know I'm fighting with things that are objective or already solved arguments irl, against people that only have emotion on a video game. They aren't going to win long-term in an argument but have confidence when attacking people so I'm just going through the motion already knowing the end result. I don't consider these "actual debates" but rather "educating people on the reality of the world they forgot".

No, I won't discard your opinion because of that. Hell, I went around 5-6 months without issues when I first joined this game toxicity wise. Even in the venue scene it depends where you are and how many people you know before you end up finding drama for the first time. I know people can have different experiences, especially in different regions which is why I haven't responded to people that said they didn't personally experience harassment as a lalafell and only to people that seem to pretend they have knowledge of how those situations are or saying they don't exist.

I respect the second to last line. I think that's all most people want. Noone wants to shove it down their throat, force them to see it, but just literal basic respect of what people do in private.