Is no one happy?

[Xaruko_Nexume]

I guess an entire role getting gutted and ignored is petty and tiny.

Huh? What role was gutted? I assume healing, because I keep seeing a lot of posts from folks who seem to want to just be DPS with an instant queue.

I guess a race waiting 3 years for new hairs only to get 6 hairs that cut off their racial features is petty and tiny.

Yes. I am going to call that one petty and tiny. If you were stuck with one hair style then I would get it. You aren't.

I guess losing out on an entire dungeons worth of gear, most gear in a new expansion being reused and undyable,

I have no idea what you are talking about with the first bit. I am casual, after all. I also am still probably new enough to not care, at all, about reused gear and if something is undyable I either wear it as is, or find something else. Quite petty and also tiny I would say.

and almost every job being simplified is petty and tiny... Totally no problems here keep moving on.

I would be lying if I said I had heard zero complaints of jobs being "dumbed down" in game. But Ive also heard plenty of people saying "oh yeah I like the new AST for Endwalker" or more recently, SAM lost an ability or something? IDK, but again enough people Ive talked to in game who either didnt know about this or did not care, that im gonna go ahead and slide this one over to tiny and petty too.

As for toxicity, all i can say is i personally find the forums much better than reddit, where when i give constructive criticism im met with racial and homophobic slurs, and people who stalk me and make alt accounts just to harass me and be homophobic/sexist because i dare criticize this amazing game.

Stalking and harassment here, reddit, or anywhere is inexcusable and awful. Im sorry that happened to you.