They Should Add An Official Damage Meter With One Condition

[Rein_eon_Osborne]

you can still be nice and tell someone, they aint ready.

Nah, it's nicer to just kick silently and let them ruminate over what they've done.

/s

[LisSquid]

Nah, it's nicer to just kick silently and let them ruminate over what they've done.

/s

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I want to believe some people try, but they just don't know how bad their performance is. I've been in so many groups over the years that disbands (then secretly reforms) to silently cut someone out. That is way, way more toxic imho.

[Rein_eon_Osborne]

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. I want to believe some people try, but they just don't know how bad their performance is. I've been in so many groups over the years that disbands (then secretly reforms) to silently cut someone out. That is way, way more toxic imho.

Believe me, that would be my first course of action too.

I like to see people try, learn, grow, and improve. If I could, I want to encourage them too. I want to guide when I can. It was one of my foolishly idealistic goal when I first took upon the meme that is mentor status. I mean, it couldn't be any worse than simple headbutts a few times, right? Except it actually gets far worse than that and above all, it left a bad taste. It's not what I paid the subs for; dealing with passive aggressions. Without hard evidence it's harder to pin down where things actually gone wrong to craft a solution & it's easy to be refuted by plain denial without basis.

In the end, avoiding confrontation is still the safest bet than to risk the loss of sanity if it really comes down to that.

[Maxilor]

Nah, it's nicer to just kick silently and let them ruminate over what they've done.

/s