Quote Originally Posted by Sigiria View Post
But the tank is not refusing to play if they're actively pulling and tanking what they believe they can handle neither did they create a situation in which a player would get killed. The person that pulled more did.
And this "throws a huge hissy fit about how they wanna tank (which, nobody has stopped their ability to tank, except themself)" can very much be this as well "throws a huge hissy fit about how they wanna dps (which, nobody has stopped their ability to dps on the current pack or made them pull more, except themself)"
Okay, so I just really really wanna make sure I'm understanding correct what you're trying to say.

If I, as a tank, decided during a fight to put my weapon away, and stand there, doing absolutely nothing at all, you say that's not refusing to play? Can I ask what he is doing?

And on that, your swing of "how they wanna dps" is strange to use, considering the one in question is still, in fact, doing dps. He has not stopped. So, can you clarify what you mean? Because it sounds like you're saying actively pressing button = not playing, and actively doing nothing = playing. Which, I know Limsa sounds nice, but... We're not in limsa.