My personal thought is that I know what I can handle as both healer and tank, but depending which one I am, I don't know how the other person feels about it. When I tank, I ask specifically the healer how they feel about big pulls.

DPS feelings don't matter.

That being said, as long as you run them to me and not run around like a lala BLM who casted fire on their own ass as they sprint, I'll pick them up. Don't run circles around me. Don't run them to the far end of the hall. Don't make me chase you to get them. Just come stand next to me and I'll get them right away with an AoE!

ALSO ALSO, don't ever run ahead of me to pull when I have no aggro. That causes me to have feelings that would get me banned from most websites if I described them. I'm already headed to pick them up and they're in a nice position that I can usually just AoE them and keep going to get the next one. I don't normally sprint because I forget to, but if you want me to go faster TELL ME.