Criticism isn't abuse.
Abuse is abuse.
As soon as you start saying people should be fired, are braindead, or have no idea what they're doing, you're abusing the people behind the job and not criticizing the work they have done.
Complain about what you don't like. State what you would like done. Leave the people who do the work out of it.
Very often I hear that rallying cry of "but people need to be called out". Almost exclusively it's by people trying to excuse their loss of temper without admitting it didn't have to go there.
Absolutely nobody is saying we need to excuse bad choices or changes, just that pointing out why they're bad or simply that we don't like them is enough.