if you're dying to predictable telegraphed raidwides because of low hp that is the healers fault 100%. Healers should be dpsing but not at any cost.

if you're dying to raidwides at ~75% hp because you had 2 vuln stacks thats on you. It's not a bad habit, dps need to git gud too sometimes. pop that second wind folks.

it's team game everyone has a a part to play and don't expect your healers to overcompensate for other's inability to stand out of the bright orange circles.