Hi again - just to clarify, I'm female and like how the WHM AF looks, and yes - my friend is male and was commenting how of course I'd like it because it is so 'girly', which I don't take offense at because I am, admittedly, pretty 'girly' natured (also, for we Japanese this isn't that bad of a thing, actually). I also need to be clear that I didn't mean the actual character animations (sorry^^), I meant the spell animations like the lily for Holy 3 and heart Lilybell. So it is really more like FrogDog said above, my guy friend just thought that WHM spell animations and AF we too feminine leaning, and he wasn't saying that because he hates the feminine, but rather because he wanted the gear and such to be a little more 'neutral', I guess.