That was sure a hell of a lot of text to say you don't like being nice. If you're going to be rude then don't be surprised when people get angry with you.

I don't think people should be yelling at you but people are going to react. Idk this lack of community comraderie in a multiplayer game based around cooperation at it's core. Whenever I absent mindedly pull I just say "Sorry, my bad." and we all move on with our day. If you really thought you were doing nothing wrong you wouldn't need to seek outside validation on a forum of strangers for it.