I have compiled a few threads of a similar general subject - for reference - before the same arguments happen again. I think these would be a great help here! Enjoy!

https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5503643
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5389485
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5479216
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5051130
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5266793
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5395321
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5516875
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5342292
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5316429
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5357872
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5302733
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5293734
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5491713
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5491902
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5447701
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5390810
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5416631
https://forum.square-enix.com/ffxiv/...=1#post5524961