Read again what the OP has posted. They came here to tell about what had happened to them to see if it happened to other people. In doing so, it was placed in a public forum for those who both agree and disagree with them to post. How you see that as a red herring? I'm not sure ...
What? People quote my posts and others and focus on one line of the post, and not the whole of it. No idea what you are talking about.Projection.
I give an opinion on how I felt the OP handled the situation was wrong, also while giving examples in things I went through, and apparently I was passive agressive. I already stated some of my wording and expressions might have not fit well, but nah ... don't read that, just go around it. Why not go back and find that poster who told people to "grow the f**k up* and threw harassing names at posters because they had a differing opinion and didn't automatically agree with what was said. That is passive-aggressiveness. No where have I told the OP to leave their FC, or that they are a "bad leader". I have stated that I think they should not have gone back on their decision(though I never stated that changing one's mind was bad, only that there should have been an explination to those kicked why) and that those kicked had a valid reason to be upset (though I do not agree in any way what they did was right).You've been among the most "passive-aggressive" with your insults to the OP and anyone disagreeing with you in this thread. And make no mistake, you have been insulting throughout the thread. You've also been part of the dogpile.
Also, the OP didn't put a lot of information in the first post, giving it later though the topic as they replied to people. Information that could have helped them in the beginning to paint a particular "picture" on what happened and about the other party. So far those who disagree with me have just taken what I wrote and wrote it back without giving any valid points in return, or picked out one line from a whole paraghaph and focused on it.
As I have said before, I apologize if some of my words were wrong (I have difficulty of always getting across what I mean) but I don't apologize on the point I was trying to make. I hope, once again, the OPs FC does not go through this again, that this is a learning experience, and that they continue enjoying the game.



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