Tank entitlement vs group entitlement

[Ibuki-]

Am I misunderstanding your post? Does hall of novice need to teach communication? See, my point is very simple:

1. Out of 4 members in the party, 3 wants big pulls. The 4th member should do it and not "k I'm not healing you, k I'm not tanking this, k I'm not gonna aoe"

2. In the event a majority wants big pulls but the healer or tank is new; communicate. "Hey I am new to the game / this class. Can we go at a slower pace please"

3. In the event communication does not work, adapt and learn and not be sour (or salty). The run would be over in 10 minutes instead of raging non stop for the next 10 months.

4. Duty finder is there for easy party access to dungeons. Roulettes is a mix between newbies and long time players of which both should be equally respected and not push expectations on them "oh just because I can do it".

Personally, when I got to stormblood and I've ran all the level 70 dungeons as first time without video references and I can hold my own weight as a healer. Yes I can do it. So? Should I expect every other tanks to do large pulls, too?

Adapt to the majority of party wants. This concept is so simple yet often ignored.