so the count goes

cute:
lala without beards, 1 baby face per male race, catboys in pink clothes, a vanilla looking midlander with freckles

manly:
au ra (sans face 3), roes, highlanders, 1 old/rough face per male race, lalas with beards (?)

somewhere in the nebulous inbetween:
2 elezen faces, catboys that aren’t in pink clothes, vanilla looking midlanders without freckles