Confessions of a Toxic Elitist

[Miste]

Nay, there is one time, probably on the same day, where you posted something about someone being unwilling to accept unsolicited advice from yourself in the venting thread, and basically all you did was make the problem worse. You genuinely seem to care about helping people, but don't like it when people refuse it.

It wasn't only one time. You replied to me in more than one thread, but it is whatever. I don't harbor any ill feelings about something that long ago if I had I would have kept you on ignore.

No... it isn't that I "don't like it" when people refuse it. I simply "don't understand" why some people refuse it, but me not understanding doesn't matter...the only time I am ever tiny bit more insistent is when the run is at stake from wipes. If people aren't doing stuff that will cause wipes I don't care if they don't want to accept my advice.

Unfortunately that specific situation was almost killing the party. So yes I tried only two times to try to explain to them I am just trying to help and because actively avoiding the party failing seems like a good thing to me.

Two times of a few sentences isn't excessive nor was I rude to them at all, but I know I've told you this already in that very thread so it only shows again you don't listen to what I say usually :/

Miste, surely you realize that if someone posts something on the internet, and some significant amount of time has passed, bringing it up again without being prompted just makes you look petty. That is what Bourne is doing, that is what akaneakki is doing.

Unfortunately it was relevant to what you said about parsers since you have in the past made similar mistakes. We all must mind what we post since it is there indefinitely unless deleted by mods. If you are afraid of people remembering things you've posted and mentioning them again it is likely better to just not bother posting unfortunately :/ and I am not saying this to be rude at all or in a bad way, it is simply friendly advice.

I mean I always try my best to be respectful to everyone on here, but I am no saint either. I've made mistakes and been more blunt than I should have been sometimes or being sarcastic (usually towards people who do it first, but still). I accept that though and if people wanna say something about something I said in the past I will clarify, accept if I was wrong, or apologize if I did something unnecessary.