Agreed casual really should not be the community go-to as a measure of skill. It really fits better as measure of time played. For instance, I myself am a very casual player because I play a mere 2-3 hours a week.However, I wanted to respond to this to draw attention to an issue I very frequently see in the FF14 community. When people make a statement or offer advice, your credibility is directly influenced by your experience.
Frequently we see low information players make comments like "I have every character at 70 I know what I am talking about", or "I have a mentor crown, so I know more than you", when in fact neither of those (and many other instances) are indicative of actual subject matter expertise.
In your specific example, you've made a decision to hide your logs. That is a red flag to me that demonstrates that you may lack the class/mechanic expertise you claim to possess (not that you do, merely that it is likely).
Couple that with a statement you made below about another healer who had "eaten a couple columns", but then stated that they were indeed a good healer. However, evidence clearly shows the opposite. We all make mistakes for sure, ESPECIALLY including myself, but repeatedly dying to the same mechanic and calling that player good is a red flag that further cripples your credibility.
I'm all for helping people, in fact I thoroughly enjoy it, but they have to want to be helped. In my admittedly anecdotal, experience the playerbase simply does not take tips/criticism well regardless of how many smileys, how colloquial, or cat girl ASCII memes I post while attempting it.
Last piece - please understand this is not intended as an attack on you personally, but merely a demonstration intended to show that if you want to be more credible to your audience you need to demonstrate you come from a position of subject matter expertise.



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