My whole message is just made in order to make things more clear in a positive way.
You misunderstood what I said, and I maybe expressed myself poorly, I don't know. I wrote :
1rst message p.30 : 2nd message p.30 : Just to be sure, being perfect was a way of speech again in a funny way because it was underlining the difference with people who are so bad they can't even dodge an orange aoe on the ground (I thought people would got it). My quote means : "Avoid playing with randoms because overall they suck hard". It wasn't supposed to defend them but more to laugh at them as I gave up on that and only play with static.
3rd message p.31 : Still not defending them for being bad.
4rth message p.31 : I believe we agree about this.
5th message p.32 is irrelevant about that, except meaning I thought the topic was about parsers overall, not especially about high level content only. Maybe that's why we didn't get each others for a while.
6th message p.32 : It was just numbers, with exagerated differences to express they were all above average players. If you prefer, he is at 1200 and all others at 1300 and what is needed is 1000. I don't believe it's what is called being carried as the DRG already is a player way above the average.
I admit I expressed really poorly on this one, my apologies, it wasn't obvious at all. On this exact exemple, I meant it as a thought from the good enough player who's getting harassed, and "perfectionnist" was actually a way of censorship about what that player will actually think at this moment. On top of that, those called the perfectionnist here are the harrassers, not the pro-parsers (I'm pro-parser, and I'm not calling myself a perfectionnist. People made up I was telling they were perfectionnists because they were pro-parsers. There is not only one kind of people using parsers. I'm wondering why people thought so).
"To attack someone with an argument" was a way of speech, I see how you actually took it and it was not supposed to be taken this way. Maybe language problem of mine, I can't know. I didn't feel like "offended" etc, anyway. It was really just to say you use an argument against another argument.
I understand, but I didn't express I was against parsers. People made it up. I was not talking about you guys being rude/perfectionnists but the harasser to be one if the harrassed was way above the average already.
My 1rst post was : People made up I was talking about a guy under average (Just need to read all the post saying I was defending bad players, when I didn't even defended them :
(So do I)
Never said you had to.
Never said the opposite.
I was not talking about OP's case :/ I believe it's another part that mislead people. I agree she was wrong, it's just not what I was trying to say. I said the same thing than you about she's really wrong if she can't bring the needed dps if there were all players of her skill level. And I wrote also I'm for people to be able to express to others they are below what is needed and they have to do better. I remember in Bahamut my leader told me I was having in the end not enough dps because I was cast cancelling too many spells to dodge mechanic, and I said, ok, that I didn't realize it was ending to be too low, so I focused for improvement and did better and it went well. As I said it's stupid to feel offended because people tell you in a normal way you're not good enough for the content and you need improvement.
You said we part away when I told you I won't get rid of a friend who is not good enough, but I will tell them they have to improve and will help them to do so. We have a tank friend we never took in high level content (actually tried once to show him why), and it was a friend who said that, in the end it was ok he won't do HL content because he didn't want to improve for it, that it wasn't a fun game anymore if he had to do all what we adviced him. We all accepted and he didn't came in HL content. But we just all talked normally, and the other one expressed he will stay casual and leave HL content so it was ok for everyone. So yea, that person left because it was impossible to clear with that person (who is an irl friend). If it was possible to clear while he was doing his tank role with no problem, we wouldn't even care.
I didn't expect what I said would have been interpreted badly.
When I said "good enough" people heard "bad players not willing to improving" when I actually meant "good enough". What can I do?
When I never expressed something against parsers, and called the harrassers "perfectionnist" to harrass someone "good enough", people thought I was against parsers and that I'm talking about the mindset of players with parsers overall. What can I do?
When I expressed "You should deal with the idea overall random people suck, so avoid playing with them and get a static", people think I said "people suck, so deal with it and it's ok". What can I do?
When I said "a DRG above the average (so playing good) is playing with (all made up for the exemple) gods", people hear "the DRG is carried (when if all players were of his level they would have succeed the content hands down)". What can I do?
When I write someone "attack with an argument", he thinks I mean "I feel attacked, I'm offended" when I just mean he "showed opposition with an argument".
With all that being wrongly interpreted, it's starts being frustrating (btw, KaivaC, I never called anyone hypocritical but was the one called to be hypocritical, it's maybe a detail, but I prefer to say it).
Yea I talk about that guy from the start while people thought my "good enough" was the one with 4k. It just escalated quickly.
I just hope it makes some things more clear in order to calm things overall when I believe we agree in a gerenal way.