But you have to realize there's a problem before you seek out help/advice. When you can simply be carried through most of the content in the game there doesn't appear to be any problem. It only slaps you when you hit an enrage or a group where everything takes forever, and then said players are more likely to blame everyone else.
The game never tells you if you're part of the problem, and why seek out advice if you think everything's fine and it's just everyone else that is bad?