Why Does It Feel Like Poor Play Is Acceptable (I'm Venting.)

[winsock]

So, switching it up a bit, would you say if I come to a gathering of sports-loving guys, and someone decides "Hey, let's play [the sport for which you've all gathered]", it's unreasonable to expect everyone ther to AT LEAST - and let me emphasize that - AT LEAST be capable of the basics of said sport? Because that's what we're talking about here.

Can every hockey fan ice-skate?
Can every swimming fan swim?
Can every polo fan ride a horse?
How do you realistically guarantee that everyone in the group is a "sports-loving guy"?

And don't try to take the hardline "well you can just not pug then" approach.
I've seen plenty of people complaining that they can't find groups.

K, ill take your approach then:
If you cant find/create a static, it's because you arent putting in the effort. We are talking about basic social skills