Tanks not holding aggro in dungeons? The new norm?

[Rilifane]

Also UNLESS YOU HAVE ALSO A MAIN TANK ROLE PLEASE STOP WITH YOUR ALL MIGHTY EXPECTATIONS. IF YOU DON'T TANK DON'T JUDGE.

You don't need to play a role for 60+ level to know when someone is fucking up spectaculary. I had my fair share of tanks who let mobs run rampage without me touching regen or dps focussing a mob in an aoe situation. And I don't need to play a tank to 60+ to know that in this instances, the tank fucked up. Period.
Nor do I need to play a healer to 60+ to notice when someone dies for the lack of timely healing.
Or a dps to notice that an add hasn't been focused down fast enough.
If any of that happens, then I adress it. And they better not react with "You don't play role XY, you can't judge me!".