Dear Ranged Dps

[Exiled_Tonberry]

Not everyone is comfortable with speed running. Let the tank pull and set the pace they are comfortable with. If you don't like the speed of the run then you are free to leave and find one that suits you.

If you want to set the pace then tank yourself.

Everyone should work together to make a run as painless a possible, even if that means stepping out of your comfort zone for a while.

I understand if a tank doesn't like large pulling (it's not speed running), but if everyone else in your party desires it, then you adapt. This idea that tank is the sole pace setter is so silly. If you want to play leader, run with 3 of your friends and have them deal with you or something. Other tanks that are good at their role will be flexible enough to adapt to their parties needs.
Back when actually speedrunning Wanderer's Palace was a thing, and it was actually hard to heal, I didn't give up and force smaller pulls. I adapted.

Of course, if you can't large pull as a result of you simply not being able to handle it, rather than some stubborn idea that you can do what you want, that's different. Totally understandable. But if you can, and your party wants bigger pulls, then give it to them.

Dungeon running is a team effort, you can't go in thinking you'll play how you want no matter what anyone says.

(This post isn't directed at you, but Tanks in general)