I know your impatient to do dps. and can't wait to start the fight to do "CRAZY DAMAGE".
Good that's how a dps should be.
However going ahead of the tanks and pulling in the hope that the tank will catch up with you. (after all what a useless tank. He's not pulling fast enough so I'll just keep pew pewing. He'll just pick up the pieces)
Wrong
Point hear is I play DRK.
Overtime I see I dps pull I just stand there and watch.
Inevitably he starts to scream and complain about me not being a good tank and slow on the pull or not being able to hold hate.
Honestly I don't care. The pleasure I gain from seeing you eat the dirt is way to good. Groups are very simple
The tank and the Tank alone pulls.
In FFXI and WoW the rule was simple.
Give about 5 to 10 seconds at the start of the fight for the tank to gain hate then start dps.
If you see me in a group as tank and you pull a mob or group of mobs for me. My reaction is simple and consistent. I WILL LET YOU DIE.