You'd be surprised to see how often tanks out dps the dps. Big pulls aren't going anywhere jus something ull have to get use to
I fully acknowledge and understand this...but when you make it to the boss fight with less than 50% Mana as a white mage and you get ignored with your request to "wait leme recharge" - and barely survive the fight.....yeah....not a great game.

My point is not that I can't do it...I do pretty damn well in-spite of it.....its just a sour game....its more enjoyable when I can kick my feet up and play the game...not when I have to hammer my controller pad and bang the keyboard to save the tanks over-indulgent ass from the fire...and then get a shower after feeling like i went through a major workout.

At least as a tank i can casually "tank" - wish I could do the same as healer.

DPS - queues are too long - so yeah.

But I know...they wont go anywhere...so I make friends who are like minded enough to be forgiving and understanding.