Are you saying that Harassing, bullying and embarrassing a person motivates them to improve? No it does not, it makes them more likely NOT want to run extremes and run into people like THAT. For the record I have completed Sophie EX many times as an AST, so I know the fight by heart, I was going with NIN so I could get my bird, as I said before, it was a farm party, no one complained about anything , we cleared the boss multiple times and then, our healer left. This WHM jumps into our party and starts harassing and ebarrasing me about my DPS.
This is never a way to get someone motivated to improve.