Quote Originally Posted by BigRed5392 View Post
She was raised to be kind, and point out a person faults is rude. She asks questions to NOT ASSUME, as she feels people make mistakes and don't realize it. She isn't nitpicking but asking. It is to open up the door to communication, you know like an adult. It is the way this community acts, that people act like this. Which is also what I was pointing out. People assume everyone else is rude, and treat people nasty, and do vindictive things like refusing to heal, tank or dps.
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I'm sure she's the sweetest angel, but my point still stands. She should just tell them more directly what she thinks is wrong. People can't guess what she really means, and asking a vague question of "why?" doesn't sound like an opener to communication if people are stressed, it usually comes across as blunt or sarcastic.