Quote Originally Posted by BigRed5392 View Post
She wasn't insulting the new player, she wasn't swearing, nor name calling. Yet they kept digging into her.
I've been reading your last several posts about your GF and the treatment she gets, and the only thing that has really remained consistent is the questions she is asking. It sounds like she questions every questionable action from her teammates. It is not a bad thing, but players are quick to believe they are being attacked when someone questions what they are doing.

If she's tanking, she is setting the pace of the run, and if she is indeed questioning players as much as your posts suggests, it is going to slow things down. If the actions of her teammates are negligible, it might be best for her to just let some things slide and speak up only if someone is a hindrance. Otherwise, the other players will deem that she is the one making the run longer than it needs to be.

From my experience, players are much more open to discussion and criticisms after multiple wipes. First wipe: Dust off and try again. 2nd wipe: "Everyone be sure to use their CDs, and healer focus on heals." 3rd wipe: "Ok guys, we need to stop for a min and make sure everyone is on the same page with mechanics." If no wipes are happening in the instances your GF is participating in, players will want less questions asked and just work towards the clear.