Ive been looking at the scores a lot, and one of the last games I played the adders far and away had the least amount of points from base and ice but had almost +900 from kills and they won by about 400 points.

Kills matter way more than people give them credit for and I always have a laugh when we "let them fight" and get ahead by about 200, and then at the end of the game the enemy team rolls in with 3 battle fevers and 5 highs and just destroys us for the win.

You should really be smashing the enemy team any time ice isn't up, especially if they are fighting someone else. There is no "let them fight." Trap one team between the other two and get your points and highs.