I think the OP is getting a lot of hate from asking a simple question.

While I do agree that there is a wide selection of gear for everyone to choose from, and the Little Ladies Event was probably a bad example of masculinity when viewed by adolescent boys. They are boys, let them go through the 'girls have cooties' phase of their development before passing judgement on them.

On the point of glamours, we all need to acknowledge the fact that there are less masculine options when it comes to glamour. I play both a male and female characters. From experience, it is much easier to find suitable glamours for my female alt, they can wear pretty much anything and still look great! However, I have fewer masculine options when trying to glamour my male, main . Perhaps I'm just not a 'fashionisto', but them's the facts. At least for me.

Forget being a mage! End game and glamour gears are littered with dresses and skirts. I get that robes are part and parcel of the mage job, but I very much doubt that Merlin would have ever voluntarily worn a Sky Pirate's Coat of Casting. At least not without being tricked into it.