This game needs better DPS feedback

[FoxyAreku]

I've never liked damage meters due to their tendency for exclusion rather than improvement. People typically react one of two ways when meters are brought up:

1) Advice is given for improvment, response is: Don't tell me how to play my class
2) No advice is given for improvement, just insults as to how bad someone is doing and they are removed from the group

Neither of these are particularly healthy, happy outcomes. And the rare case is advice is given and accepted graciously...

Yeah, people generally seem to suck at taking criticism.

[Rawrz]

Yeah, people generally seem to suck at taking criticism.

You take that back! That's harassment! You don't know me!

lulz xD

[Izularia]

Yeah, people generally seem to suck at taking criticism.

But it's also important in what way people give that critique. I have seen players saying things like "You suck, git gud!" to other players, without giving tips or even saying what is so bad in general. I think all they wanted to do is to bring another player down - that is unnecessary and helpful in no way. How are they supposed to get better when they don't get any advices, and are called out as a "sucker"? THAT puts many players out of this game.

There is no problem with saying that someone needs to step up, it's good to point it out and it definitely can help when it's said in a respectful way. I'm always happy about some good and nice criticism - so are many others, I bet.

[whythehate]

But it's also important in what way people give that critique. I have seen players saying things like "You suck, git gud!" to other players, without giving tips or even saying what is so bad in general. I think all they wanted to do is to bring another player down - that is unnecessary and helpful in no way. How are they supposed to get better when they don't get any advices, and are called out as a "sucker"? THAT puts many players out of this game.

There is no problem with saying that someone needs to step up, it's good to point it out and it definitely can help when it's said in a respectful way. I'm always happy about some good and nice criticism - so are many others, I bet.

We can all cherry pick information to back up our points

I have only seen someone personally insulted for their dps once, I have seen low dps players insult healers and tanks more than I care to mention.

I have tried to offer advice myself as nice I could, sometimes they listen and thank me, sometimes I'm then subject to their abuse because "I know how to play my class" and other times just falls on deaf ears

I myself have been insulted numerous times for dps but guess who by? non parser users.

This happened during 3.0 and the introduction of much, you remember the stigma this got? Mchs were being kicked from groups, pfs had mch excluded for nearly every piece of content out their all because their POTENTIAL dps was inferior to other jobs.

I was a ps4 player at that time but I did what I still do today practiced, numerous times I was nearly kicked from duties just for being this job.

One run, I forget what I was doing but we hit enrage. The mnk in the group screamed this Fkn mch kick him they are shit dps, a parser user came to my defense and posted numbers. I was top dps by 300 dps...

[Izularia]

We can all cherry pick information to back up our points

I hope I did understand your comment in the correct way. If not, I'm sorry for the following.

You're right. Everyone has the possibility to look for guides and stuff - but when you get insulted, I think you hesitate to play that game any further. There's a chance for that at least. I know a few people that stopped playing because of that.. yeah, some people are more sensitive than others and get discouraged very often.
If they did get a critique not half that bad and with a nice attitude, I think they would have had the motivation to step up their game.. but who knows.

Edit: It's also true that there are people who don't want to hear that they aren't that good, you're right. But I've seen more people being thankful for useful tips than being "sulky"

[whythehate]

You're right. Everyone has the possibility to look for guides and stuff - but when you get insulted, I think you hesitate to play that game any further. There's a chance for that at least. I know a few people that stopped playing because of that..
Edit: It's also true that there are people who don't want to hear that they aren't that good, you're right. But I've seen more people being thankful for useful tips than being "sulky"

I understand and agree 100% have no right to actively insult a person, we are on the same page there.

To the comment above, again missing the point completely. The vast majority are expecting people to pull just basic dps, which btw is no where near optimal dps. It's something you should know I.e maintaining heavy thrust on drg (doesn't really matter if this falls off sometimes)
1 2 3 (chaos thrust rotation)
4 5 6 (full thrust rotation)
Using 4th tier combo
Actively trying to hit positionals
Maintaining pleb dot
Using jumps and other ogcds
Try to maintain botd as best you can

All this you should already be familiar with, actually rotation optimising is completely differentm

Of course players will have different goalposts they expect but I can assure you their are only a real handful that actually expect savage style dps from a pug.