Which is why I am asking here. I challenged him to point out exactly who is doing what wrong, and he fell back on "well maybe everyone should review their job rotation to make sure they're doing it right." If I'm the problem, be blunt and that's fine.
I checked HT/BOTD, and one gap was from being a bird for boost, and the other was from mechanic juggling (bombs I believe - so yeah I can improve there).