Why are low standards for dps acceptable?

[RickXRolled]

I got kicked recently for tanking with str accesories and dropping tank stance on bosses with a heal onry healer. He said wannabe dps tanks trigger him. I told him healers that don't dps trigger me. Shortly after that I was removed from duty.
Atleast I could laugh about it.

Another time I was healing as a scholar and dpsing during mass pulls, tank would often dip below 3k hp before I healed him. I made sure he never died while still contributing to dps, yet he took offense to being below half health allot and starting raging at me. He told me I suck because I can't keep his hp up. I tried to explain what I was doing, but got kicked before I could finish.

Tldr;
Some terrible players can't handle good play and kick the good player.

[EnoraTaqa]

I got kicked recently for tanking with str accesories and dropping tank stance on bosses with a heal onry healer. He said wannabe dps tanks trigger him. I told him healers that don't dps trigger me. Shortly after that I was removed from duty.
Atleast I could laugh about it.

Another time I was healing as a scholar and dpsing during mass pulls, tank would often dip below 3k hp before I healed him. I made sure he never died while still contributing to dps, yet he took offense to being below half health allot and starting raging at me. He told me I suck because I can't keep his hp up. I tried to explain what I was doing, but got kicked before I could finish.

Tldr;
Some terrible players can't handle good play and kick the good player.

There. No matter what you do, you think you are doing the right thing (and you were, except with STR acc as Tank when I'm healing <- joking)

And you get kicked for whatever doesn't please the rest of them.

So, you grow tired of their [....] and simply choose to go along.

Lots will have lost their will, I hope you will continue to play the way you are.

But for them, you were the terrible player. It's a catch 22.