This is entirely your opinion, and that's cool, but the reason the system exists is because the system works.
I personally don't mind waiting for FATEs (I rarely need to wait for FATEs anyway), and your entire first paragraph is not a bad thing in the slightest. Weekly and daily limits exist for a good reason, and I, and plenty of others, have no problem with the current system.

...However I don't mean adding new interesting not-instanced stuff is a bad thing! Hey I'm all for new content :P

Oh and if you need to remember to enter your house so it doesnt get demolished... Maybe you don't need the house after all?