I don't actually have to vent much, but I don't let things get under my skin to begin with.Why would I? In the scheme of things, it doesn't really matter. This is why your response isn't following with propriety. This is the point I have been trying to make. It simply doesn't matter what he said. In the scheme of all things, it's not even a foot note on life, yet you feel the need to blow it up and call foul with a forum post. Why? Because you let it get under your skin, 6 months, 1 year, a decade, doesn't matter. You snapped, came here, and whined. I know you weren't stripping anyone of their rights, and I understand the tank's role and rights perhaps better than even you. Your situation is minor compared to what has been said and done to me. Yet I have never once claimed foul was done to me here. As far as it's ever gone was mentioning what was done to me to my FC, and that's where it ended, because I don't need the sympathy or the attention from an entire gaming community to vent to. Also, please show me where this specifically mentions "feelings".

pro·pri·e·ty
p(r)əˈprīədē/
noun
the state or quality of conforming to conventionally accepted standards of behavior or morals.
"he always behaved with the utmost propriety"
synonyms: decorum, respectability, decency, correctness, protocol, appropriateness, suitability, good manners, courtesy, politeness, rectitude, morality, civility, modesty, demureness; sobriety, refinement, discretion
"she behaves with the utmost propriety"
etiquette, convention(s), social grace(s), niceties, one's Ps and Qs, protocol, standards, civilities, formalities, accepted behavior, good form, the done thing, the thing to do, punctilio
"he was careful to preserve the proprieties in public"
antonyms: indecorum
the details or rules of behavior conventionally considered to be correct.
plural noun: proprieties
"she's a great one for the proprieties"
the condition of being right, appropriate, or fitting.
"they questioned the propriety of certain investments made by the council"

This isn't about your feelings or their feelings. It's about behaving to standards that would not warrant reproach, which is obviously not the case here. It has been agreed upon that the DPS' actions were imporper, but so were yours to a certain degree, in this case, failing to respond before pulling anything. No, it isn't as big of a deal as what he did, but it became a big deal obviously, because you decided to respond to impropriety with impropriety.