This is often how I see new players treated in FFXIV:

[Aeyis]

The dps was needed at the time, you were not. That makes me seem mean and I acknowledge that. Still I stand by it, prioritizing things is a healers job.

Take it from me, since you dont seem too knowledgable about a healers job. Your decision is one based on arrogance. The second healer is your backup at the very least. What if you were to die? What if you were low on mana? Ressing a dps over a healer in anything (but coil, depending) is completely stupid.

In this case, battle at the big keep. 7 folks for a card and a new guy.

LOL You did this in a hildibrand duty? Shame on you, gods, shame on you. Even with SE not originally giving rewards, and now only fun rewards, some people like you still only care about themselves and their own ego, eh?

The community is only toxic because we're human. There are easy ways to make things better. Don't attache cut scenes to runs, put them outside. Don't force folks to rng grind things to the point they hate being there. these are things se should adress. The rest is just humans being human.

G off. Humans arent toxic by nature. Because you have a terrible attitude please dont blame the entire human race for your own behaviour.