This is often how I see new players treated in FFXIV:

[Elmeron]

Hah, here's the thing folks. This lovely lalafell was in that party with me and others. During his little pity party he fails to mention that 1: he didn't ask for folks to wait. So when we pulled he went on a rampage abotu how he's new and people need to respect that, etc etc etc. Then he complained that we wouldn't let him watch the cut scene. Nobody stopped him, we were just guna do Gilgamesh without him while he did that. As for not raising him, it was near the end of the fight and we didn't need his heals.

So..sorry in this case the other 7 folks shouldn't have to wait for you because you're new. Watch the scene, nobody was stopping you. Come back again and do the fight if you want and you can in fact watch the scenes in your inn room later too. You can't go into a duty finder and expect folks to sit idle for you, get a party, get friends, use party finder or get a better FC for that. Duty finder, as harsh as it is to say, is to get the duty done.

Hah, you're funny, and I was being nice and not naming any names, but alrighty, here I go: 1) You forgot to mention that I said I was new at the beginning. Sorry that a newer player expected that when he explained he was new he'd be allowed to watch a 20-30 second cut-scene without having to also miss the fight. 2) The inn journal is not so players can skip cut-scenes to appease elitist jerks, it's to come back to and re-watch what you did in the past. It's something extra, for fun (which is awesome of SE btw). 3) You revived a DPS over another healer who had been dead longer than that DPS had been. Don't try and tell me that you weren't being spiteful. And I at least can admit that I didn't handle myself correctly. You on the other hand...

Either way, this is the last I comment on it because frankly, it really pisses me off.