I don't understand...

[Radacci]

SMN using Ruin and energy drain...and misasma II...out of reach.
I gave him advice, how to improve, but he didnt respond nor improve.
So i said he should consider playing some other job.
Then he left without a word.

Which brings us to the original intent of the system, random encounters with endless possibilities with a central theme of helping players running through the story and/or completing quests/hunts.

This is not the place to judge players because it is more about situational help and less about friendship related help. You can ask people whom you know to act how you think they should act but don't expect the same from strangers.

We're no one to be judging people we don't know. No one owes you anything in a random chance encounter. In Duty Finder let it work how Square wants it to work.

Helping ppl through content, and helping ppl improve on their job.....
Any reason you can't do both?
Why even have a chat in DF, if all you're *supposed to do* is carry ppl through?
Why not just go into DF, and afk, and let the rest of the pt clear everything for you? Just let them do that, if that's their play-style.