We should know better as healers as we signed up for the role since launch unless u r those ppl who jumped from healer to dps and never looked back lol.
This bs comes with the job imo and it's a "tankless job" at most times.
Us healers and tanks have it worse than dps, atm SE made a mount achievement for tanks as compensation for all the bs they have to put up with hence the name being " it's a tankless job"
Or something like that.
I play a tanky whm cuz
1) it's fun
2) it's pretty viable in the game/ and in progression.
3) it helps carry the burden of a failing tank
4) it's fun
5) makes you a better raw healer
* some healers r so smug now because of their super high mind.

Hopefully in 2.3 we'll see more healers in DF.