Quote Originally Posted by HolyGlassofWater View Post
...If you go to the tank forums, you will see tanks saying the exact same thing about tanking, quitting tanking because it's too stressful and people are blaming them too much.
This is definitely true. I think huge problem is that tanks don't know how healers work and vice versa. There needs to be a synchronicity between the tank and healer. The healer needs to know how Warrior tanking differs from Paladin tanking. And the tank needs to know how a Scholar heals versus how a White Mage heals. It requires some research in the other's thread and walking a malm in their shoes. Pick up coj or gla or mar on your main, even if it's only for 20 levels.

There's a thread of communication that's not easily opened with a new PS4 player without a keypad. The best you can do is gently guide them in party chat. If they're receptive, they will oblige. This game is really full of wonderful, patient players who are eager to learn and to teach.