I try to help people the best I can, but it rarely gets any better....

You can't just blame the players though, blame SE and the MMORPG genre in general too, cause all fights are built so that you have to research every fight before doing them... unless the content is new and nobody have done it yet. You can't blame people for not wanting to take over an hour doing Titan EX because you have to explain every single detail of the fight.

The reason a lot of players are impatient with noobs, is because they haven't watched/read these guides on the fight, or they just haven't learnt enough from them.

I could do Titan EX on my first try after watching a vid of it. It wasn't perfect the first 2-3 tries (DF), but I didn't do much faults either and I didn't die outside of wipes which is the important thing. After that I haven't had any problems with the fight at all. So I know it's possible to learn the fight quickly, which makes it a little harder to be patient at times....