I saw where things were heading and took steps to adjust. I had my WHM fairly geared up, relic and some DL+ crafted. There was a spot open in a coil group in my FC, and I honestly could have taken it with the gear I had. I would have felt better joining after I had finished DL and Relic +1. Instead I decided to work on leveling my other classes. I'm an altoholic, in every MMO I always have multiple characters as I like being able to do everything. Since CT is between Primals and Coil, I figured my time would be better spent now leveling my various classes and getting some basic upgrades and probably relic weapons and then with the patch I'll have a new raid that will provide upgrades for many of my classes.
3 Months into a new game, having 2 major raids, hard and extreme mode primals, and 5 end game dungeons plus various other activities is a lot. It's not as much as a game that has been around for 8 years, but give it 8 years to catch up and it will be a fair playing field.
Did they do things perfectly... no. Did they warn us... yes. They told us what was coming, they told us where it would fall in progression, and when they did exactly as they said they would, people were shocked and disappointed.